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Anyone else?

Postby Chidz90 » Tue May 16, 2017 2:03 pm

Is it just me or are you more comfortable leaving bub with your own mother rather than mother in law? Is it normal? Is it just because youve know your mum your whole life and trust her unconditionally??
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Postby nathaly93 » Wed May 17, 2017 2:34 pm

I always leave my kids with my mom. I do trust my mom more then my mother in law but I also have evidence that my mom will always take care of my kids better then my in law will. The only time I have left my oldest (3 years old) with my mother in law my daughter found rat poison and my in law had no idea until another of her grandkids saw my girl and toke the poison away.
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Postby Chidz90 » Wed May 17, 2017 4:53 pm

Oh my god that is so lucky! You poor thing that must have scared you!! My mum in law hasn't done or not done something but she believes in the cry it out method and has tried to let my bub cry is out while i was there once. I dont believe in it especially while so little. I think im more worried about her not following what i want and how i look after my bub while my mum has the same values fof bringing up children. My mum has worked with babies and children since she was 18! So i feel she knows alot more and has more experience.
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Postby Pia90 » Sun May 21, 2017 10:15 pm

It really depends on the person. I however trust my MIL more than my own mother with my baby. My Mother has really strange views of how to raise a child and will not accept our ways.
My mother in law on the other hand respects our ways and adapts them.
she is the only one I trust 100% with my Baby. I can see how much she loves her (like she was her own new born baby)
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Postby Chidz90 » Wed May 24, 2017 4:27 am

Yeah i understand. I probably should have worded it differently and asked if there is one particular person who you trust more than others to look after bub.
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Postby nathaly93 » Thu Jun 01, 2017 3:11 pm

I actually had a fight over this last night with my husband, he said that we should take our girls to his mom more often so we can go out a little more since she doesn't work. When I told him what had happened the last time I left my oldest with her he was surprised because nobody had told him a thing about all of that. He has the worst temper of all of his brothers so they never tell him anything unless they know he can handle it and they didn't wanted him to get mad at his mom, but they didn't care that the health of his own child was at risk... so he said we are never leaving our kids with her unless one of us is in the house with her.
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Postby Mrzsanchez16 » Wed Jun 14, 2017 4:17 am

I mean I live with my in laws for financial stability reasons and I let her have my son for hours on end as long as I'm in the house or if we go to the gym which is close I somewhat trust her she's very loving and caring but I trust my own mom so much better I've left the baby with her overnight even though I know no one takes better care of my pumpkin than me no one hurt his birth like me so I know I value my son
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Postby Sazz14297 » Thu Jun 15, 2017 7:22 am

Im exactly the same. My daughter is 8 weeks old now and i homestly feel my heart racing when my husband suggests leaving her with his mother or his father. It scares the life out of me. I trust my mother because she brought me up so i know she is totally capeable and she does thongs the way i do. I cant even leave her woth my granny (mothers mother) its so hard. Im glad im not the only one
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Postby Chidz90 » Fri Jun 16, 2017 4:46 am

I glad im not the only one lol.
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Postby PreemieMommy » Tue Jun 20, 2017 4:29 am

I agree, I trust my mother more than MIL. I know how my mom will care for my child whereas I can only assume how my MIL will care for her. Plus MIL's house is full of roaches!!! Last time I made rice at her house and there were worms in it. Needless to say I do not like my daughter eating her food.
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