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Rape......

Postby Angelbethrawr » Sat Sep 30, 2017 4:41 am

I was raped 3 years ago by my now ex. He was mentally physically sexually and verbally abusive. I have never told anyone about it. I was wonder g if anyone else has been through this type of thing because I kinda want to finally talk about it so I can move on from this. I don't feel like I can live with this pain from it anymore....
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Postby Bonique28 » Sat Sep 30, 2017 4:53 am

plz stay strong
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Postby AlaaR » Wed Oct 11, 2017 6:24 am

Angelbethrawr wrote:I was raped 3 years ago by my now ex. He was mentally physically sexually and verbally abusive. I have never told anyone about it. I was wonder g if anyone else has been through this type of thing because I kinda want to finally talk about it so I can move on from this. I don't feel like I can live with this pain from it anymore....

Hi there
I am sorry for what you experienced.
I know a friend to was sexually abused.
How old are you?
Would you like to talk more about how you have been feeling?
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Postby AlaaR » Thu Oct 12, 2017 6:09 am

Hi again...This forum does not have a lot of visitors..I checked it randomly...I think on the TTC forum you will find more people to interact, read your topic and maybe share their stories.
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Postby cacahuate86 » Thu Oct 12, 2017 6:30 am

The TTC forums is not the place to discuss this topic though... you'll only create more work for the modetators, who'll move the post here again, where it belongs.
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Postby flopsy » Fri Oct 13, 2017 4:22 am

Or delete it if it's a duplicate in the wrong forum
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Postby AlaaR » Fri Oct 13, 2017 5:55 am

Well.. it's an idea since no one seemed to see the post..even if it is moved to somewhere else..it could have brought some peoole attention who could share the story.


Anyways, that is not the focus here.

not sure if you will ever read this, but hope you are doing ok..and whenever you feel like talking please do not hesitate to post here.wish you the best
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Postby Angelbethrawr » Sat Nov 11, 2017 1:08 am

I attempted to go see a shrink and panicked in the waiting room and left. So I still haven't talked about it but I have berried it again in the deepest depths of my mind -I know this is super unhealthy- however is seems to easier
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Postby Littlebird » Sat Nov 11, 2017 6:45 am

Hi
I understand why you have panicked in the waiting room. But as a person who been to psychologists for years I can say that they only help. You are a very strong person wanting to talk about it and letting it go. Partner abuse is prevalent and it can be implicit on a daily basis so you dont even realize it. Suddenly you look at yourself and see that you have lost your self confidence, self esteem. The best way is to talk about these with a professional also to see the patterns in your partner choices as well. Clear yourself from this experience, stay strong and be sure to only be in healthy relationships again. You can talk to me here as well, but the best is to consult a professional
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Postby CountryStrong97 » Sat Nov 11, 2017 11:57 pm

Angelbethrawr wrote:I attempted to go see a shrink and panicked in the waiting room and left. So I still haven't talked about it but I have berried it again in the deepest depths of my mind -I know this is super unhealthy- however is seems to easier

Hey, I just went through this for 2 years with my now ex. He was also abusive in every way. I haven't been able to go to therapy because I have a weird feeling talking to strangers about this kinda stuff. Plus I've been abused in these ways since I was 9. I'm 20 Now. (My ex knew this). I know you're afraid and may feel alone. But I promise you're not. I'll gladly give you my number or any advice you may need. I'm here for you sweetheart. I've buried mine for years but this one made me realize I can't anymore and I have to deal with it. You need to stay strong. We both do. We can get through this and move on with our lives.
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